Time for change?

Change. A word that I have been afraid my whole life. The funny thing is though that my life has been most about changes. Never did what girls at my age did when I was younger and now I never do what women of my age normally do. I just do my things. Which are MY things. And I wouldn't mind to keep being the black sheep, but I noticed that in the last couple of years I did not do any important changes. Of course some people who know me would say that changing jobs, falling in love, making many new friends ( most of them acquaintances), living on my own have been more than just "changes". But I don't feel this way.

I feel that now I have more insecurities than ever. I cannot stand being alone anymore, even if that means staying at home 1-2 nights during the week. I just can't. And now I am with somebody it's even worse. I feel sooo insecure. We are not always together. I guess having this kind of relationship where most people don't know about it's kind of difficult.

So I need to change. I need to be stronger and able to stay positive more than just half an hour. Because otherwise I won't stand me. I need to change and become more optimistic.

So my first change is stick to my training and losing weight program. Not for health reasons etc. I am thinking that when I feel good about my body I will automatically start feeling good about my inside too. So I try. Really hard. I need this change. I need to start from here, the exterior of me. And then I will see. I just hope it won't be too late.